It was a Saturday morning. I think it was in December. Melanie and I had walked downtown to get a little exercise and run a few errands. We stopped in at the bike shop to say "hi" to BJ and he told us that he was planning a ride in September, a self-contained bicycle tour from Seattle back to Dixon and then maybe on to Bloomington, Indiana. He expected to average 65 miles a day. There was an implied invitation in what he said.
When we left the shop, Melanie said, "You should go, too."
I tried to shrug it off. It has been a few years since BJ and I last toured together. My situation has changed. There were a lot of hurdles in the way of my going. But Melanie kept talking it up all the way home.
"You should go while you're still able."
I asked her, "Could you live without me for a month?"
She could.
"You'll have to give the cat his shots."
She said she would.
"Well, I'll think about it." I was beginning to take the idea seriously.
On Monday, I called my brother. Our 81 year old mother has impaired cognitive functioning. She has required a lot of attention from us both. I told Jeff what I was thinking.
"Could you take care of mom for a month?"
He said he could.
After worship the following Sunday, I ran the idea past my church council. It would mean I'd be away for five consecutive Sundays. They approved the idea. So on Tuesday, at my weekly pastors' text study, I asked my friend and colleague Chris, "What are you doing in September?"
She said, "Give me a week to think about it."
The following Tuesday she agreed to cover my worship and pastoral care duties. She insisted, however, that I call this trip a sabbatical.
"I won't do it if this is just a vacation," she said. So it's a sabbatical.
And that cleared the last obstacle.
I have been riding, and training, and tinkering with my bike, and gathering my gear, and on Monday, August 27, BJ and I will board a plane bound for Seattle.
I'm excited and maybe a little nervous.
Good to put the Sabbath back on its appointed day (take that, Sun!).
ReplyDeleteOh, I remember that ride to Hilly Hundred a few years back. Hope you make it all the way.
ReplyDeleteI can't ride anymore. Cancer, and 1.5 years of chemo and a stem cell transplant took that away from me.
I was killed in VietNam by Agt. Orange...I just haven't died yet.
You two have a safe journey. I wish I were riding with you, but I will through your blogs.
Bill Lang